Marriage (also called matrimony or wedlock) is a social union or legal contract between people called spouses that establishes rights and obligations between the spouses, between the spouses and their children, and between the spouses and their in-laws.  The definition of marriage varies according to different cultures, but it is principally an institutionin which interpersonal relationships, usually intimate and sexual, are acknowledged. When defined broadly, marriage is considered a cultural universal. In many cultures, marriage is formalized via a wedding ceremony.
In terms of legal recognition, most sovereign states and other jurisdictions limit marriage to opposite-sex couples or two persons of opposite genderin the gender binary, and a diminishing number of these permit polygyny, child marriages, and forced marriages. In modern times, a growing number of countries and other jurisdictions have lifted bans on and have established legal recognition for same-sex marriage, interracial marriage, and interfaith marriage. In some cultures, marriage is recommended or compulsory before pursuing any sexual activity.
People marry for many reasons, including: legal, social, libidinal, emotional, financial, spiritual, and religious. Marriages can be performed in a secular civil ceremony or in a religious setting. The act of marriage usually creates normative or legal obligations between the individuals involved. Some cultures allow the dissolution of marriage through divorce or annulment. Polygamous marriages may also occur in spite of national laws. Marriage can be recognized by a state, an organization, a religious authority, a tribal group, a localcommunity or peers.
It is often viewed as a contract. Civil marriage is the legal concept of marriage as a governmental institution irrespective of religious affiliation, in accordance with marriage laws of the jurisdiction. Forced marriages are illegal in some jurisdictions. We believe marriage is a gift from God for the blessing of men, women and children and for the good of society. However, given the present practice of cohabitation outside of marriage, the prevalence of same-sex unions and the disintegration of arriages in Western culture, we of the Evangelical Presbyterian Church offer the following Biblical principles relative to the sanctity of the institution of marriage. In this position paper we seek to think about marriage under the authority of the Lord Jesus Christ and God’s written Word, the Bible (2 Timothy 3:16). We believe that God has revealed to all people in all cultures at all times a sense of morality in the ordering of human relationships. Therefore, there is a moral imperative which governs all human relationships, including marriage. In the second hand, premarital sex is sexual activity practiced by persons who are unmarried.
Historically it has been considered taboo in some cultures and religions. In some cultures, the significance of premarital sex has traditionally been related to the concept of virginity. However, unlike virginity, premarital sex can refer to more than one occasion of sexual activity or more than one sex partner. There are cultural differences as to whether and in which circumstances premarital sex is socially acceptable or tolerated. Social attitudes to premarital sex have changed over time as has the prevalence of premarital sex in various societies.
Social attitudes to premarital sex can include issues such as virginity, sexual morality, extramarital unplanned pregnancy, legitimacy besides other issues. Premarital sex may take place in a number of situations. For example, it may take place as casual sex, for example, with at least one participant seeking to experience sex; it may take place between a couple living together in a long-term relationship without marriage; for a betrothed couple engaging in sexual activity before their anticipated marriage; and many other situations are possible. II.
Counter Argument When God created Adam and Eve, He ordained marriage as the fundamental institution of society (Genesis 1:27-28). In marriage, a man and woman leave their families of origin and become united as “one flesh” in a new family unit (Genesis 2:24). The judgment of Scripture is that marriage is to be honored by all (Hebrews 13:4). Marriage is a covenant between one man and one woman and between the participants and God (Malachi 2:14-16). It is therefore more than a temporary agreement of convenience, a contract or a well-intentioned promise.
As a binding relationship established by promises, the marriage covenant is solemnly sealed by a ceremony witnessed by family and friends and regulated by the state. When a believer marries, it is God’s will that he or she should be united only with another believer (2 Corinthians 6:14). Because God has created and instituted marriage as a lifelong covenant (Matthew 22:23-30) and because the marriage covenant is to reflect the strength of God’s covenant love for His people (Hosea 3:1), any variation from His ordained decree is harmful to the participants and in violation of God’s mandates for all people (Mark 10:11-12).
God ordained marriage for the following ends: The Glory of God: Marriage exists first and foremost to glorify God. Human beings individually are image bearers of God (Genesis 1:26), but man and woman in marriage also display His glory (vv. 27-28). Marriage as a creation ordinance glorifies God as creator. Beyond that, however, marriage is to glorify God as redeemer, for Christian marriage is the consummate illustration of the redeeming grace of God in Christ (Ephesians 5:22-33).
To the degree that Christians live out this pattern of God’s love through His grace in Christ (Ephesians 5:1-2), they witness to one another, their children, the church and the world the gospel of God’s redeeming love in Christ. However, God’s glory and our good are complementary. For this reason, marriage exists also for our good in the following ways. Companionship: Genesis 2:18a teaches that “it is not good for a man to be alone. ” Therefore, from the beginning God called men and women to promote mutual care and friendship within their marriage relationship.
Mutual Assistance: Genesis 2:18b adds “I will make a helper suitable for him,” reminding us that we are to be a help to one another in the marriage relationship. Also, each husband is to love his wife as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her (Ephesians 5:25). The Bearing, Nurturing ; Training of Children: Genesis 1:28 and Ephesians 6:4 teach that the marriage relationship is also for procreation and moral teaching of children (Deuteronomy 6:4-7). Promoting the Stability of Society: When marriage, the foundational human relationship, is degraded, the family nit disintegrates and the fabric of any nation unravels (cf. Genesis 2). Affirming the Proper Context of Human Sexuality: Hebrews 13:4 clearly teaches that sexual intimacy should be reserved for a man and a woman within the covenant of marriage. While in Premarital Sex, There was this girl named Elisa who was in a situation at the age of 18 that really challenged her vulnerability as a girl growing up choosing to have or to not have sex, and she didn’t know what to do. Two years have passed since her and her significant other has remained in a relationship, and finally the talk about having premarital sex comes out.
Already knowing what her boyfriend is going to solicit, she starts to freak out and let her emotions get to her. She starts to contemplate having sex with her boyfriend because she feels like they are inevitable together and nothing in this world can tear their love apart. Considering all the positive outcomes of having sex with her boyfriend comes into her mind such as her relationship becoming enhanced if they have sex and maybe they might even be better-off as a couple if they decided to physically become one body.
But she is quickly reminded that her religion and moral values also have to play a role when decided to have sex. She knows that it’s wrong in Gods eyes but she want to make her partner happy too. Premarital Sex is a sensitive subject to all sorts of individuals including the ones who approve and those who disapprove. In the Catholic Church it is immoral and not allowed in the eyes of God, and others don’t look at it from a religious point of view and just do what they feel they need to do to be physically content.
The Catholic Social Teaching looks down upon premarital sex because the moral value of intercourse is supposed to be for married couples to procreate and to come together as one body in love within a committed marriage, however when two people are put into the position of having premarital sex, emotion and fascination take over morals and values that each human has. When Americans ask if pre-marital sex is socially acceptable, especially within a democratic society, the answer lies with what the majority believe.
A large portion of the society would have very few qualms about an unmarried couple having sex, so long as that large portion of society was comfortable with the idea. There really are no normative ethical standards, no absolute rights or wrongs in our culture. Under these conditions, how could sex be applied to any moral scrutiny? It is whatever the individual thinks it is. The meaning of sex is what you give to it. But social acceptability is the question, isn t it? In that case the only applicable standard would be something like political correctness.
So long as the majority isn’t being offended by the act, and so long as the participants care for each other, there probably isn’t going to be any objection. So the answer, which will be discussed further in this paper, is yes, pre-marital sex is not only socially acceptable, but also socially demanding. There s nothing surprising about that, but it sure is sad. The reasons that individuals give for engaging in pre-marital sexual activities are usually relatively similar.
Some people believe that if they are not sexually active as an adolescent they will not fit in, or they will be ridiculed for their choice to abstain from sexual intercourse until marriage. Around school, sex is usually a major topic of conversation; students are constantly talking about how great sex is and how often they “do it”. Those same students are usually the ones who do not worry about protection (Meier 8). Teenagers find it to be some sort of competition nowadays to see who can have the most sex before they graduate. Boys often find that they are being pushed to prove themselves by “scoring” (Meier 9).
None of them think of the consequences. Some of them even end up impregnating younger women. Some teenagers believe that if they have sex a lot, they will not get pregnant. Others believe that you cannot get pregnant in a hot tub, girls cannot get pregnant during their period, and that you cannot get pregnant the first time they have sex. Some even believe that if birth control is taken right before intercourse, it will prevent a pregnancy. Those are all myths. Getting pregnant is easier than anybody would think. Some pressures come from other sources and not just their peers.
When a young person becomes involved with a boyfriend or girlfriend, the couple may have to deal with the pressures directly. One might pressure the other to have sex. This can often lead to break-ups causing more emotional problems. A girl is more likely to think of sex as something romantic but, however, have sex with boys with whom they have no real relationship. III. Your Argument The sanctity of marriage does not negate the gift of celibacy (1 Corinthians 7:6). While marriage is a great blessing, it is not God’s will that all should be married.
This was certainly the case for the Lord Jesus and probably for Paul. Singleness in Scripture is also a great blessing and offers unique opportunities for an undivided devotion to the Lord (1 Corinthians 7:1,35). Consequently, those whom God has called to be single for His sake should be recognized and honored in the Evangelical Presbyterian Church. In Marriage, it has the blessing of the lord and it will legalize the two people loving each other to be as one, it has promises that you must keep both of you forever until one of you die.
Me, I want to be married to man that will never left me, that will care for me whenever I sick, in pain, in laughter and to share my problems with. Marriage is a lifetime commitment, so we must be sure if the one that we will marry is ready for a lifetime commitment, and it definitely takes time to search your lifetime partner. However, being married means that you are not single anymore, you have already your lifetime partner. Marriage is sacred, we not must be playing. It’s like sex, making love with somebody is sacred, and it is giving your whole body to your partner.
It is sacred because giving your virginity to a person is really for people who have a blessing with the lord and legally in the law. Because making love has many responsibilities to take and it is really important to have a marriage, like for having a blessing like babies. However in Premarital Sex, Premarital sex used to be a huge problem in the society. But, I’ve noticed that it hasn’t been lately anymore. Sex after marriage becomes less important every minute of every day. As a matter of fact, in this present generation we live in, it has already been accepted among people, especially to the teenagers.
It does not really bother or matter to them anymore but rather, if they’ve done it, they’re even in the “in” crowd now. When someone says he/she isn’t a virgin, it won’t be as that shocking news as some may have imagined it to be. Sex is already all over the society. Although, people having sex today are not aware of the consequences that come with having sex. They just think it’s fun and can please them by satisfying their needs. But nevertheless, I still think otherwise. I have several points that I want to point out to people so that they can consider these before engaging into premarital sex.
The basic two reasons why we have to save sex for marriage is because, one, God tells us to and two, sex outside marriage cause damages in physical and relational consequences. Do people even know that premarital sex is a sin? Well, it is. Christians who engage in premarital sex are breaking God’s laws and are not following Jesus Christ word. God created sex not for pleasure but for the process of procreation with the person you truly love. You may ask, “What if my boyfriend and I really are truly in love?
Can we then have sex now? ” The answer is still no. I remember doing a report on love. It was a passage I got from the bible. It says, “Love is patient. Love is kind. It does not seek to please itself nor does it delight in evil… ” At that time, I didn’t truly understand what it meant, not until now. True love would be patient in waiting for the proper time to have sex. If you really love each other, you are willing to wait after you get married. Your virginity is the best gift you can give to your husband or wife